Further Description

When the SX instinct dominates, it compels individuals to prioritize close, intimate connections, particularly in romantic or family settings. Unlike those who seek widespread social ties, these individuals are highly sensitive to both subtle and overt signals, working to attract their ideal partner while avoiding those they find unsuitable. They carefully adjust the flow of these signals to align emotionally with others or create deliberate contrasts, striving to build deep and meaningful connections. Their relationships often feel like chemical, as they respond to others in ways that foster emotional reactions and a sense of unity or fusion. This intense focus on closeness frequently magnifies their emotional experiences, pulling them deeply into their desires and passions. They become keenly aware of the push-and-pull dynamics of attraction and repulsion, which heighten their emotional engagement and amplify their satisfaction in intimate interactions. Sexuality often plays a central role in expressing this energy, where they find fulfillment in both surrendering to their partner and asserting their own presence, creating a profound bond that feels like complete emotional merging. For those with a dominant SX instinct, the realm of emotional connection and intimacy is often the most fragile and overcompensated aspect of their personality. Although they are adept at forming passionate, meaningful bonds, their drive stems from an inner fear of disconnection or disharmony. This need to feel in sync with others reflects a deeper struggle with an underlying sense of being out of alignment unless these intense relationships are in place.